The author reflects on how losing a high-paying job triggered a scarcity mindset rooted in middle-class beliefs, leading to a fear of “wasting” money. This mindset prioritized utility over play and experimentation. By unlearning these beliefs, the author finds clarity and calmness, realizing that true security lies in self-trust rather than constant consumption

The author reflects on the fragility of a high-income lifestyle in big tech, revealing that despite a substantial salary, true wealth lies in options and flexibility. A job loss exposes the burdens of fixed expenses and commitments, leading to reevaluation of spending habits. Ultimately, financial security derives not from income but from the ability to…